Sunday, December 13, 2009
Fully domesticated ?
Friday, December 11, 2009
Piemonte - foot of the mountains ( piede dei monti)
Thursday, December 10, 2009
macro versus micro business
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Missing it or not?
Saturday, December 5, 2009
(tunnel+bridge)^85
The drive from Neive to Antibes is mostly autostrada quite easy driving as long as you look ahead for slow trucks pulling out from the right and ultra fast cars zooming up on the left. First drive South on a flat, wide drive then over the pass in the Apennines’. There were inches of snow there today during our drive. At Savona you turn left and the coastal highway drive begins. The scenery is inspiring, sweeping views of the Med and inland between the crags of the Apennines’ as they dive into the sea. The road is tunnel after bridge after tunnel after bridge with no “solid” road anywhere. The temperature to has risen about 10 degrees and there are patches of sun warming instead of the clouds and fog. Then you hit the Grimaldi tunnel and suddenly all the license plates have ‘F’ instead of ‘I’ and the driving is a little less…exhilarating. You are using the “sortie” instead of the “uscita”. Then sortie 44 and in a few minutes you are in the slightly shabby 2 star you have chosen for a base to explore Biot, Grasse, Antibes and the other villages of the Cote D’Azure.
A tout A l’heure!!
JT
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Learning Italian - Part 1: Intro, and Julian's path.
So, each of us learns differently in striking ways. Let's start with the kids. Everyone always tells you "the younger they start learning a new language the better", or "that (whatever "that" is) is the perfect age to learn". But what do they really mean? Here's what they mean (I think): the big difference is whether you already know how to read and write another language, or not. This is, in my opinion, the big difference between Augustin (8) and Julian (5). They are both making unfathomable strides in their capacity to understand and speak - and, in Augustin's case, write - the language. But in not-s subtly different ways.
Julian is not beginning to randomly insert complete sentences in Italian in regular conversation at home. Not a word here and there. He doesn't struggle to think about something he wants to say. He has internalized a situation from school, and a canned sentence - in his case, a series of sounds - that goes along with that. Because he parses no words in those sounds (or at least only has a tenuous concepts of separate words) he does not bother wondering "am I pronouncing this one right", "does this end in 'a' or ''o'" - he blurts it out. Naturally. For example: we were playing Legos (of course) the other night. I was messing around with a construction he made. He nonchalantly said to me, "No Daddy, non si fa cosi', guarda: si fa cosi!". Wha? Did my kid just speak to me in Italian? Perfect intonation, pronounciation, and all the other -ations. "Not like that, look, like this!". BOOM! Obviously something that came from a teacher (thankfully none of his speak any English) in a classroom situation. In the evening, going to bed he says "Giu' la testa!" ("Put your head down!"), something he obviously picked up at school at naptime (he loves that....). These fully formed, conscious sentences are the culmination of three months of full immersion at school. Julian is quiet and shy and we more than once we wondered if his propensity for isolating himself would mean he would not learn as quickly or as much as Augustin. Boy were we wrong. He is always sensing his environment (just as he is at home when his brother takes over the environment, on the surface, but he is right there with the conversation, even if he doesn't appear to be. A few weeks ago we got the first few glimpses that his brain was working overtime. Once the lights are off in the evening, and the boys are still awake, he would whisper in himself random snippets, half sentences, unfinished, in Italian. Over and over. The same three words. Next night, a different few more words. Like the brain, which had already learned them, was trying to hook up to the speech motor systems for output. You imagine that at the input end there was a similar adaptation where the eardrum was drumming strange noises into the head and at the other end the brain was waking and asking "what the heck" and sharpening its listening circuitry. OK I am engineering here. Anyway, a fascinating hidden process went on between the initial contact, a few months of apparent disengagement, to now, where he naturally is compelled almost, unconsciously to say it in Italian. Sometimes I think he doesn't even realize he used Italian, and surprises himself once he sees our reaction and realizes what happened. This also is happening at school, also out of the blue; the teacher yesterday reported that he walked up to her and announced "E' finita la colla" ("There's no more glue"). Just like that.
Sticking still with Julian for the moment, I will introduce another thread of thought about this, namely that personality has much to do with the ability of one to use a language as anything else. Julian is shy and somewhat of a perfectionist in certain things. In fact, I am reminded that he was really not into speaking in English way back when he started talking. He would rather just point at things he wanted untli one day we suspected that he actually could talk but was not doing so out of ? shyness? (lazyness?). We forced him to ask for what he wanted by name and lo and behold, "Pasta" came out. Julian also tweaks 7 pieces of legos for hours until they are perfectly exactly arranged in the very shape he means them to be arranged. Symmetrical, color balanced and 'fully upgraded' as he calls his ships. And so it id with Italian. He is not going to say anything until it's right. And when he says it, it is. When I made a game-quiz the other night asking what fall fruit we are likely to encounter more of in the next few weeks, and gave the clue that it began with ... C ... A ... S ... Augustin had already come out with a half dozen different semi-on target option, when Julian, quiet until then, nailed it with 'castagne'. 'What the heck?' I am not sure how he knew that.
Which brings us to Augustin. In the next post.
My first run-in with Italian healthcare and an emergency room
Monday, November 16, 2009
bathroom fixtures
OK for those of you who are sensitive, you may find the following poopoo caca talk objectionable.
"Usually located adjacent to the toilet, the bidet provides a level of cleanliness that just can't be achieved with mere wiping, douching, or showering. The user adjusts the temperature and water pressure of the bidet, and then sits or squats on the fixture. With the flip of a lever, a jet of water surges reassuringly over the user's sensitive anatomical features, providing a sensation of refreshment and rejuvenation."
Now let's talk toilets....OK? In the US, we have a bowl with that a deeper well at the bottom of the the bowl that leads out .Toilets here have a higher sort of shelf part in the bowl at the front then the deeper well at the back. Only the deeper well though is filled with water – the front higher part is dry. Imagine now some little people and how their output does not fall into the well but well in front of it on the shelf. OK? ( The shelf is like ahem a landing pad and no water to smother bathroom odors and right skid marks galore! My kids laugh about it. Every toilet has a toilet brush next to the toilet to….clean the bowl after use! GEEZ!!! I just don’t geddit. People who have experienced toilets here and in the US say that in the US there is too much water and …um splashing. Well I think there is a place here for some ingenuity some INNOVATION even ( or is that word so 2008 ?). Come on people let’s have a self-cleaning, non-splashy throne invented – and of course low flow too!
Last thing about bathrooms in Italy – public bathrooms are totally 700% gross only to be used in extreme emergencies and usually only the womens is bearable at all. Yes I am a girl and so you may think I am being all girly and needing clean everything but please believe me – we are talking yuckier than the worst porta-potty at a well used camp site you can think of. It is here in Italy where, in having two little boys, I am actually thankful that there is an alternative to the free public toilets: public toilets where one needs to PAY .50E or 1E for the privilege.
nuff said on THAT topic eh?Tuesday, October 13, 2009
School days...dear old golden rule days
Monday, October 12, 2009
Lets do lunch
Friday, October 9, 2009
Autostrada limit=80
Monday, October 5, 2009
Beyond Marcorino
Marcorino is the name of the hill just outside the gates of Neive where the house and a few others are located. Here are a few shots from around Neive.
OK OK it been a whole month already
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Via Cavour 5
1st guest post from hubby
Lady: "Well, with 1.5 hours for lunch many kids just go home with their grandparents or whatever".
Me: "Well in the US they had about 15 minutes to eat their sandwiches".
Guy: "15 minutes??? That's not even enough to open a bottle of wine! No wonder the poor guys are forced to eat hamburgers and those porcherie (food fit for pigs)" (I didn't ask if they serve Julian red or white).
Guy: "Anyway, in the South they take 2.5 hours! Things are a lot slower down there."
Lady: "In any case, we are getting a lot of pressure to start serving GMO-free organic foods, there's always something!".
Me: "Well, if they don't learn Italian they will at least learn how to eat well."
Other tidbits:
- Ago's Commandant teacher has told him he MUST wear a jacket in order to transition between buildings at school. He is of course hot from just having to wear his smock on top of the shirt and shorts. I am waiting for the battle about no shorts in the winter.
- He is also to finish ALL the food on his plate. Brings back memories. We used to have stools in the cafeteria that stowed on tracks under the table surface. Those tracks is where all the food went when we didn't want to eat it. No tracks at this lunchroom. It will be interesting. On the other hand, here are some sample menu items:
- Tagliatelle with tomato and basil sauce
- Risotto
- Veal rolls
- Caprese salad
- Pasta with Pesto
- Sole
- Fresh cheese
- Pork loin
- Octopus and potato salad
- Gnocchi
- Frittata
Fresh seasonal fruit is on the menu with EVERY meal.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
supermercato
Although there are the small and generally excellent butcher shops and green grocers and bread shops here in Neive and in every town, there are also chain super markets - Conad and Standa are two near here.
*many of varieties of short grained rice ( Arborio, Roma, etc etc
*various sized garbage cans and their plastic liner bags as well as little brooms and dustpans
* olive oils
*bottled water
*pasta – OF COURSE!
On the other hand if you are a soy sauce or refried beans fan, you might have to import from Britain or perhaps find it near a larger urban center. I have not been in a Carrefour for several years but that megastore might have more “alien” foods. The Carrefour near Antibes had like 50 check out lanes!!!
There is lots more seafood available. In addition to the fresh fish/seafood counter, there is many types and various premixed fresh selections packaged in plastic. There were toher seafood things that I could not quite ID – it seemed like a selection of battered seafood and seafood cakes – like crab cakes. I did not go too near though as I am not a seafood fan – the smell even I do not care for.
Ciao for now. J.T.